Island of Hilton Head, S.C.David and Sybil Lauderdale have discovered that their life together has been more about their strong roots in South Carolina’s Lowcountry than it has been about the distance they have gone, fifty years after they exchanged vows at St. Paul United Methodist Church in Spartanburg.
From their early days of renting a house for $90 a month to having two kids and working as journalists and teachers in their town, the couple’s golden anniversary commemorates fifty years of shared experiences.
From Newlyweds to Lowcountry Locals
After graduating from Erskine College, the Lauderdales drove a beat-up 1964 Chevrolet Chevelle into the area in 1975. They both agreed to work at Ridgeland’s Thomas Heyward Academy, which would bind them to the marshes along the coast and the close-knit villages they would eventually grow to adore.
Their straightforward outlook on life was demonstrated during their honeymoon in North Carolina, where they picked a restaurant based on whether or not the salad bar included mushrooms. They quickly fell in love with the Lowcountry’s beauty, which included the twisting waterways of Bolan Hall Landing and sandy lanes shaded by live oaks.
Building a Life and Raising a Family
David began a career in journalism at The Jasper County News, while Sybil taught language arts for thirty-one years, primarily on Hilton Head Island. He started a lifetime of storytelling after learning to type with the aid of a restored typewriter.
The couple managed the responsibilities of job, community life, and parenthood while raising two children, Burke and Ann Talley. When David thinks back on those years, he acknowledges that it frequently felt like living day to day, but their kids’ accomplishments showed they were doing something right.
Lessons From Five Decades Together
The Lauderdales’ lives now go more slowly. David laughs about becoming like the old grouch who writes in the paper, and a trip to Beaufort feels like a journey across the world. However, their base has remained unwavering despite the changes brought about by national politics and the evolution of athletics.
David attributes their ongoing relationship to a number of important lessons:
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Patience over urgency:
Not every problem needs an immediate solution. -
Gratitude in hardship:
Count blessings when times get tough. -
Faith as a cornerstone:
Spiritual grounding has been their most reliable anchor.
The Cast Iron Skillet That Tells Their Story
A cast iron skillet they purchased in Ridgeland fifty years ago is arguably the most enduring reminder of their marriage. Still dependable and steady, it has prepared innumerable family dinners, such as cornbread and shrimp in brown gravy, symbolizing the quiet power and constancy that have characterized their shared lives.
David smiles and remarks, “It’s far better than the mushrooms on the salad bar.”
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